A reader’s experience with quitting drinking - Dry Feb 2023

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A reader’s experience with quitting drinking

By Canadian Cancer Society

The following is an excerpt from an email sent to our staff detailing a reader’s experience with quitting drinking. All identifying details have been removed for the privacy of the author.

When I was younger, I never cared for the taste of alcohol, but what I loved was having a way out of my head. One day, after a drinking event with friends, I woke up with a headache and missed calls on my phone going either direction. Then a few weeks later I got my blood tested for unrelated reasons, and the results were mostly normal, aside from a suspiciously high level of lactic acid. While not particularly dramatic as far as alcoholic turning points go, it flipped the switch in my head and made me decide I’d gone far enough down a path I never actually enjoyed in the first place.

In Bojack Horseman, character Herb Kazzaz found one thing to keep him going in his darkest hour: The Knicks were having a good season and he wanted to see what happened next. When asked what he would have done if they’d had a bad season, he responds, “I don’t know, gotten into baseball?” Silly as it may seem, the truth is that anything can happen for any reason.

The results weren’t magic--in fact, you might barely notice anything’s changed on a day-to-day basis. But I was sleeping better, which gave me more energy, which improved my mood, which improved my relationships. It’s easy, as an adult, to incidentally only go to social functions where the main activity is drinking; I’d almost forgotten how sociable I could be on my own.

And here’s the real benefit I’ve experienced since then: When you commit to playing an active role in your life and deciding to be better to yourself, it suddenly becomes much easier to do so in other ways. Your life likely won’t turn around immediately, but once you’ve said “I don’t want to drink because it doesn’t actually benefit me at all”, it’s easier to say “I don’t want to tolerate the way this person treats me” or “I’m going to take this opportunity because I deserve something good”. You begin to make decisions under the assumption that you have value as a person and deserve a good life; Whether or not you already knew that on some level, the notion becomes much more real when your actions support it.

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This article has been republished with permission from the Canadian Cancer Society's website.

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